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Public speaking is one of way to deliver your message to public besides writing and make some publication. Speaking seemingly way easier than writing bunch of words, delivering minute of speech may covers the main message of the whole book. But bigger challenge is waiting, the fear to deal with people thoughts is excessively hard to bear.
and one, your own fear!, Earl Nightingale send me some powerful quote that I saw from a book
" There is nothing to fear but fear itself"
In this post I would like to share about some causes that emerge your fear when you find yourself sweating out speaking in front of more than a person.
Your own worries and also you questioning yourself, immediately emerge from your deepest amygdala "Why I am here? What caused me to standing here?".
it happens when you see yourself at the worst desperation, you lost mind, you got so blank, like the whole head in auditorium intimidate you with their expectation, and their aura beating your few preparation gauge
2. Shadow from the past
Last year on commencement speech, you failed it then the whole audience laughed on a very bad way, then those experience haunt you every time you speak to bunch of people. The scars that haven't been heal will cause an everlasting trauma when it does not be treated.
3. Worrying about people thoughts
Returning into first point when your knowledge gauge beaten by people head. But it supposed to be not be beaten right? so your worries beat your own gauge.
4. Bad preparation
You know there is never a speaker accepting only one night big speech preparation. Dale Carnegie mentioned that a public speech is at least need 2 weeks of full material and practice preparation. Low insight of the topic will make a big blank probability.
5. Lack of courage trying new things
A fear in order to try something uncommon
6. Lack of support from the environment
I found my self to be 300% when people say such
"You can do it nus"
"People want hear your ideas!"
Do you find yourself in such condition, then what can u do!
1. You have to understand all people have the same fear
2. Analyze what make you fearful
3. Find a drive what make you should talk loud
4. Be prepared
5. Join some course
6. Imagine this speech is the best
7. Deliver the topic that you mastered about.
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